The One Habit That Will Save Your Marriage
You used to fight to go first. First to call. First to reach out. First to make them feel chosen. What changed? We're talking about how selfishness is quietl...

Life.Church
83.3K views • May 3, 2026

About this video
You used to fight to go first. First to call. First to reach out. First to make them feel chosen. What changed? We're talking about how selfishness is quietly killing our relationships.
NEXT STEPS
Did you give your life to Jesus? We’re celebrating with you! You’re probably wondering what’s next, and we’re here to help. Start here: https://go2.lc/ytcommittochrist
When you give to Life.Church, you’re helping people around the world experience the love and hope of Christ. Learn more or consider giving at: https://go2.lc/youtubegiving
ABOUT THIS MESSAGE
No one walks down the aisle expecting divorce. No one says "I love you" hoping to end up as strangers. We don't plan to ruin our relationships. But small patterns repeated over time can quietly destroy the connections that matter most. In Love Killers, we'll learn to identify these patterns and replace them with ones that make love last.
7 Prayers for Couples Seeking God Together: https://finds.life.church/prayers-for-couples/
3 Tips for Better Relationships: https://www.go2.lc/love
ABOUT LIFE.CHURCH
Wherever you are in life, you have a purpose. Life.Church wants to help you find your next step. Our hope is that your journey will include joining us at a Life.Church location throughout the United States or globally online at https://www.live.life.church
Find locations, videos, and more info about us at https://www.life.church or download the Life.Church app at https://www.life.church/app/download
FIND US ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/life.church
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/life.church
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifechurch
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@life.church
CONNECT WITH PASTOR CRAIG GROESCHEL
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/craiggroeschel
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/craiggroeschel
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/craiggroeschel
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@craiggroeschel
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/35447748/
CHAPTERS
No One Plans to Ruin a Marriage - 00:00
The Root of Almost Every Relationship Problem - 04:41
3 Ways Selfishness Shows Up - 08:07
Selfishness Keeps Score - 08:28
Selfishness Withholds - 11:06
Selfishness Demands - 15:47
How to Beat Selfishness - 19:49
A Simple Assignment - 28:13
God, Work in Our Relationships - 30:01
#lifechurch #craiggroeschel
NEXT STEPS
Did you give your life to Jesus? We’re celebrating with you! You’re probably wondering what’s next, and we’re here to help. Start here: https://go2.lc/ytcommittochrist
When you give to Life.Church, you’re helping people around the world experience the love and hope of Christ. Learn more or consider giving at: https://go2.lc/youtubegiving
ABOUT THIS MESSAGE
No one walks down the aisle expecting divorce. No one says "I love you" hoping to end up as strangers. We don't plan to ruin our relationships. But small patterns repeated over time can quietly destroy the connections that matter most. In Love Killers, we'll learn to identify these patterns and replace them with ones that make love last.
7 Prayers for Couples Seeking God Together: https://finds.life.church/prayers-for-couples/
3 Tips for Better Relationships: https://www.go2.lc/love
ABOUT LIFE.CHURCH
Wherever you are in life, you have a purpose. Life.Church wants to help you find your next step. Our hope is that your journey will include joining us at a Life.Church location throughout the United States or globally online at https://www.live.life.church
Find locations, videos, and more info about us at https://www.life.church or download the Life.Church app at https://www.life.church/app/download
FIND US ON SOCIAL MEDIA
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/life.church
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/life.church
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifechurch
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@life.church
CONNECT WITH PASTOR CRAIG GROESCHEL
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/craiggroeschel
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/craiggroeschel
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/craiggroeschel
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@craiggroeschel
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/35447748/
CHAPTERS
No One Plans to Ruin a Marriage - 00:00
The Root of Almost Every Relationship Problem - 04:41
3 Ways Selfishness Shows Up - 08:07
Selfishness Keeps Score - 08:28
Selfishness Withholds - 11:06
Selfishness Demands - 15:47
How to Beat Selfishness - 19:49
A Simple Assignment - 28:13
God, Work in Our Relationships - 30:01
#lifechurch #craiggroeschel
Tags and Topics
Browse our collection to discover more content in these categories.
Video Information
Views
83.3K
Likes
2.9K
Duration
34:20
Published
May 3, 2026
User Reviews
4.7
(16) Related Trending Topics
LIVE TRENDSRelated trending topics. Click any trend to explore more videos.
Trending Now