Shane’s Struggle with Mental Health 😟
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Shane has had a rough year for his mental health. In this video, we describe what’s been going on and how his therapy has been helping so far.
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Shane Burcaw (he/him) is the author of several award-winning books about disability. He is the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
Hannah Burcaw (she/her) graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog, which has over 1,000,000 subscribers on YouTube. Hannah has spoken at prestigious universities and Fortune 500 companies alike about the realities of ableism. On her popular Instagram account, she advocates for acceptance of all people and works to improve the way society thinks about disability.
Shane and Hannah have been together for over nine years. They got married in September of 2020 in the midst of a global pandemic in their backyard, with their officiant conducting the ceremony via Zoom. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.
Shane has had a rough year for his mental health. In this video, we describe what’s been going on and how his therapy has been helping so far.
ORDER OUR BOOK HERE! https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250620712/interabled
MORE INFO ABOUT US AND OUR CHANNEL:
Follow us on Instagram at:
Shane: https://www.instagram.com/shaneburcaw
Hannah: https://www.instagram.com/hannahayl
Our address:
Squirmy and Grubs
PO Box 16411
Minneapolis, MN 55416
Our new merch: https://shop.squirmyandgrubs.com/
GRAB A COPY of Shane’s latest memoir, STRANGERS ASSUME MY GIRLFRIEND IS MY NURSE, featuring many never-before-told stories about Shane and Hannah’s relationship, right here: https://us.macmillan.com/author/shaneburcaw
OFFICIAL Squirmy and Grubs Merch: https://shop.squirmyandgrubs.com/
SUBSCRIBE for more! 👉 https://www.youtube.com/c/squirmyandgrubs
Shane Burcaw (he/him) is the author of several award-winning books about disability. He is the President of a nonprofit organization called Laughing At My Nightmare, and a renowned public speaker who has performed across the country at places such as Harvard University, The University of Florida, The University of Connecticut, Princeton University, and many more.
Hannah Burcaw (she/her) graduated from Carleton College, where she studied Sociology and Anthropology. She films and edits the “Squirmy and Grubs” vlog, which has over 1,000,000 subscribers on YouTube. Hannah has spoken at prestigious universities and Fortune 500 companies alike about the realities of ableism. On her popular Instagram account, she advocates for acceptance of all people and works to improve the way society thinks about disability.
Shane and Hannah have been together for over nine years. They got married in September of 2020 in the midst of a global pandemic in their backyard, with their officiant conducting the ceremony via Zoom. Their interabled relationship often confuses people, because much of society still cannot fathom people with disabilities being involved in loving, intimate relationships. Anyone who watches these episodes will quickly see their relationship is just as “normal” as any other. Sure, Hannah helps Shane use the bathroom and brush his teeth, but those activities do not detract from the emotional, intellectual, and physical connection they experience together.
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