How to Break the Cycle and Stop Chasing the Wrong Person
Learn how to break free from unhealthy relationship patterns and focus on finding the right partner. Discover transformative strategies in a 2-day Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat. Visit http://www.MHRetreat.com for more information.
Matthew Hussey
81.2K views • Jul 27, 2025
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Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at . . .
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Why do we keep crashing into the same walls in love? In this conversation with Chris Williamson on his Modern Wisdom podcast, we explore the patterns that keep us stuck—whether it’s chasing unavailable partners, mistaking chaos for passion, or repeating cycles that leave us unfulfilled. We also talk about why these behaviors feel so familiar and how they’re often rooted in our past experiences rather than our actual desires.
But here’s the good news: Breaking free is possible. And in this video, you’ll learn how to rewire your instincts and create a new reality where peace and connection replace anxiety and uncertainty.
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►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 2:22 – Genuinely Wanting to Find Love
2:22 – 5:00 – Why Are We Drawn to Things That Hurt Us?
5:00 – 10:07 – Hypervigilance and “Looking at the Wall”
10:07 – 11:29 – Something We Can’t Live Without
11:29 – 13:26 – Comfort Doesn’t Always Equal Happiness
13:26 – 15:27 – Make Change Necessary
15:27 – 17:26 – What Path Do You Actually Want to Be On?
17:26 – 18:38 – Join Me Virtually or In-Person in Miami
▼ Connect with Chris Williamson ▼
Podcast→ https://chriswillx.com/podcast/
YouTube → @ChrisWillx
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx/
Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at . . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com
▼
Plan big, stay focused, and see your year at a glance with the Big A## Calendar. Use code LOVELIFE for 10% off at thebigasscalendar.com/discount/LOVELIFE.
▼
Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now.
I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
▼
Why do we keep crashing into the same walls in love? In this conversation with Chris Williamson on his Modern Wisdom podcast, we explore the patterns that keep us stuck—whether it’s chasing unavailable partners, mistaking chaos for passion, or repeating cycles that leave us unfulfilled. We also talk about why these behaviors feel so familiar and how they’re often rooted in our past experiences rather than our actual desires.
But here’s the good news: Breaking free is possible. And in this video, you’ll learn how to rewire your instincts and create a new reality where peace and connection replace anxiety and uncertainty.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/
Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey
▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 2:22 – Genuinely Wanting to Find Love
2:22 – 5:00 – Why Are We Drawn to Things That Hurt Us?
5:00 – 10:07 – Hypervigilance and “Looking at the Wall”
10:07 – 11:29 – Something We Can’t Live Without
11:29 – 13:26 – Comfort Doesn’t Always Equal Happiness
13:26 – 15:27 – Make Change Necessary
15:27 – 17:26 – What Path Do You Actually Want to Be On?
17:26 – 18:38 – Join Me Virtually or In-Person in Miami
▼ Connect with Chris Williamson ▼
Podcast→ https://chriswillx.com/podcast/
YouTube → @ChrisWillx
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx/
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