The True Secret to Building Confidence 🤔
Discover how confidence is more about others' perceptions than your self-view. Uncover the real key to boosting your confidence.

Vijender Masijeevi
334.1K views • Jan 25, 2025

About this video
What if your confidence isn’t about how you see yourself or how others see you, but how you think others perceive you? 🤔
In this reel, we explore the thought-provoking concept introduced by Charles Horton Cooley: “I am not what I think I am. I am not what you think I am. I am what I think you think I am.” This simple yet profound realization can completely change how you understand and build self-confidence.
📌 Key Highlights:
• How perceptions shape your confidence in social environments.
• Why understanding others’ perspectives can help eliminate self-doubt.
• Practical insights to redefine your self-image and boost confidence.
Confidence isn’t just about standing tall; it’s about understanding the subtle dynamics of how you perceive yourself in the eyes of others. Watch the video and take a step closer to a more confident you!
About Dr Vijender:
Dr Vijender Chauhan is an educator, UPSC Interviewer and Motivational speaker with an experience of over a decade. He is one of the most recognised faces among the UPSC aspirants.
Follow us on Social Media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masijeevi
Twitter: https://x.com/masijeevi?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masijeevi/
Public speaking series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe9703jiUliZrRB8cZMIXPyH&si=iIQoHc2SrsoOdI1M
Podcast with Dr Vijender: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe8xHGGNWhzZEzVbugyiyGnd&si=qyySVVRlZNSba8LI
#selfconfidence #mindsetshift #confidenceboost #personalgrowth #VijenderChauhan
In this reel, we explore the thought-provoking concept introduced by Charles Horton Cooley: “I am not what I think I am. I am not what you think I am. I am what I think you think I am.” This simple yet profound realization can completely change how you understand and build self-confidence.
📌 Key Highlights:
• How perceptions shape your confidence in social environments.
• Why understanding others’ perspectives can help eliminate self-doubt.
• Practical insights to redefine your self-image and boost confidence.
Confidence isn’t just about standing tall; it’s about understanding the subtle dynamics of how you perceive yourself in the eyes of others. Watch the video and take a step closer to a more confident you!
About Dr Vijender:
Dr Vijender Chauhan is an educator, UPSC Interviewer and Motivational speaker with an experience of over a decade. He is one of the most recognised faces among the UPSC aspirants.
Follow us on Social Media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masijeevi
Twitter: https://x.com/masijeevi?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masijeevi/
Public speaking series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe9703jiUliZrRB8cZMIXPyH&si=iIQoHc2SrsoOdI1M
Podcast with Dr Vijender: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe8xHGGNWhzZEzVbugyiyGnd&si=qyySVVRlZNSba8LI
#selfconfidence #mindsetshift #confidenceboost #personalgrowth #VijenderChauhan
Video Information
Views
334.1K
Likes
30.0K
Duration
1:23
Published
Jan 25, 2025
User Reviews
4.8
(66) Related Trending Topics
LIVE TRENDSRelated trending topics. Click any trend to explore more videos.
No specific trending topics match this video yet.
Explore All Trends