The True Secret to Building Confidence 🤔
Discover how confidence is more about others' perceptions than your self-view. Uncover the real key to boosting your confidence.

Vijender Masijeevi
334.1K views • Jan 25, 2025

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What if your confidence isn’t about how you see yourself or how others see you, but how you think others perceive you? 🤔
In this reel, we explore the thought-provoking concept introduced by Charles Horton Cooley: “I am not what I think I am. I am not what you think I am. I am what I think you think I am.” This simple yet profound realization can completely change how you understand and build self-confidence.
📌 Key Highlights:
• How perceptions shape your confidence in social environments.
• Why understanding others’ perspectives can help eliminate self-doubt.
• Practical insights to redefine your self-image and boost confidence.
Confidence isn’t just about standing tall; it’s about understanding the subtle dynamics of how you perceive yourself in the eyes of others. Watch the video and take a step closer to a more confident you!
About Dr Vijender:
Dr Vijender Chauhan is an educator, UPSC Interviewer and Motivational speaker with an experience of over a decade. He is one of the most recognised faces among the UPSC aspirants.
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#selfconfidence #mindsetshift #confidenceboost #personalgrowth #VijenderChauhan
In this reel, we explore the thought-provoking concept introduced by Charles Horton Cooley: “I am not what I think I am. I am not what you think I am. I am what I think you think I am.” This simple yet profound realization can completely change how you understand and build self-confidence.
📌 Key Highlights:
• How perceptions shape your confidence in social environments.
• Why understanding others’ perspectives can help eliminate self-doubt.
• Practical insights to redefine your self-image and boost confidence.
Confidence isn’t just about standing tall; it’s about understanding the subtle dynamics of how you perceive yourself in the eyes of others. Watch the video and take a step closer to a more confident you!
About Dr Vijender:
Dr Vijender Chauhan is an educator, UPSC Interviewer and Motivational speaker with an experience of over a decade. He is one of the most recognised faces among the UPSC aspirants.
Follow us on Social Media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/masijeevi
Twitter: https://x.com/masijeevi?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/masijeevi/
Public speaking series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe9703jiUliZrRB8cZMIXPyH&si=iIQoHc2SrsoOdI1M
Podcast with Dr Vijender: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLZsjpxNdkPe8xHGGNWhzZEzVbugyiyGnd&si=qyySVVRlZNSba8LI
#selfconfidence #mindsetshift #confidenceboost #personalgrowth #VijenderChauhan
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Published
Jan 25, 2025
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