The 4 Stages of Mixed Signals: Identify Your Current Phase
Explore the four stages of mixed signals and discover which one you might be stuck in. Plus, get my free personal system for emotional mastery to manage anxiety, triggers, and overthinking.

Matthew Hussey
30.1K views • Aug 10, 2025

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Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this weekend’s video, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence.
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 0:41 – The Four Stages of Mixed Signals
0:41 – 3:18 – #1 The Pen Pal Stage
3:18 – 6:03 – #2 The Early Dating Blur
6:03 – 6:57 – Moving in the Same Direction
6:57 – 8:19 – My 3-Step System
8:19 – 11:08 – #3 The Almost Committed Phase
11:08 – 14:21 – #4 The Relationship Drift
14:21 – 16:00 – Which Stage Are You In?
Get My Personal System for Emotional Mastery for FREE at . . .
→ https://www.InsideTheRetreat.com
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Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now.
I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
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Mixed signals can leave us feeling anxious, confused, and questioning our worth—whether it’s in the early stages of dating or deep into a relationship. In this weekend’s video, we break down the four stages of mixed signals, from the “pen pal phase” to the “relationship drift,” and show you how to navigate each one with confidence.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of overthinking someone’s inconsistent behavior, this video is for you . . . because the right person won’t leave you guessing.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/
Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey
▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 0:41 – The Four Stages of Mixed Signals
0:41 – 3:18 – #1 The Pen Pal Stage
3:18 – 6:03 – #2 The Early Dating Blur
6:03 – 6:57 – Moving in the Same Direction
6:57 – 8:19 – My 3-Step System
8:19 – 11:08 – #3 The Almost Committed Phase
11:08 – 14:21 – #4 The Relationship Drift
14:21 – 16:00 – Which Stage Are You In?
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