Fawning and Toxic Relationships in Autistic Individuals 🤝
Autistic people often appear overly nice or trusting, which can lead them into harmful relationships. Learn more about this dynamic.

Orion Kelly - That Autistic Guy
263.5K views • Dec 11, 2023

About this video
Hi! I'm Orion Kelly and I'm Autistic. Autistic people are often seen as “too nice,” “too trusting,” or “too accommodating”—but what if that’s not our personality? What if it’s fawning? Fawning is the 4th trauma response—fight, flight, freeze… and fawn. In this video, I explore how fawning impacts autistic adults, and how it can lead us into abusive, toxic, or one-sided relationships without us even realizing it. If you've ever said yes when you wanted to say no, stayed when you should’ve left, or lost yourself trying to make someone else comfortable—this video is for you.
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🙏 Thanks so much for watching, rating, commenting, sharing and subscribing, I really appreciate it! You're helping me raise the level of understanding and acceptance of the Autistic community. You can show your support for my channel by doing any of these things:
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PO Box 457,
Inverloch, VIC, Australia 3996
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🔵 CHANNEL LINKS 🔵
More Videos: https://youtube.com/@orionkelly
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🔵 CONNECT 🔵
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Website: https://orionkelly.com.au
🎧 My Friend Autism' PODCAST 🎧
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/my-friend-autism/id1478602313
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6d6UVtNsw7OxEUaCnr7oN0
Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/orion-kelly/my-friend-autism
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ABOUT ORION:
Orion Kelly is an #ActuallyAutistic vlogger (YouTuber), podcaster, radio host, actor, keynote speaker and Autistic advocate based in Australia. Orion is all about helping you increase your understanding, acceptance and appreciation of Autistic people.
#AutisticVoices #ActuallyAutistic #Autistic #Autism #OrionKelly #ThatAutisticGuy #ASD
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⛔️*Disclaimer: The videos contained on this channel are for general education and entertainment purposes only and do not constitute professional advice. For professional advice and training seek assistance from a qualified provider. All views are my own and do not represent those of my employers or sponsors. Some images used are stock images.*⛔️
Related: autism, autism diagnosis, Orion Kelly, orionkelly, thatautisticguy, tiktok videos, autistic, autism in adults, autism in women, autism in men, autism spectrum condition, asd, autism spectrum disorder, aspergers, aspergers syndrome, autism in boys, autism in girls, dsm, dsm5, autistic adults, autistic kids, autism mom, autism parent, autism family, autism speaks, autism awareness, autism acceptance, autism at work, am I autistic, adult autism test, autism disclosure, autism therapy, autism prevention, autism meltdown, autistic burnout, autistic behavior, autism symptoms, autism traits, autistic signs, what autism feels like, love on the spectrum, stimming, echolalia, anxiety
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#AutismAndFawning #AutisticRelationships #NeurodivergentTrauma #ThatAutisticGuy #LateDiagnosisSupport #orionkelly #autism #asd #autismsigns #whatautismfeelslike
🙏 Thanks so much for watching, rating, commenting, sharing and subscribing, I really appreciate it! You're helping me raise the level of understanding and acceptance of the Autistic community. You can show your support for my channel by doing any of these things:
1️⃣ SUBSCRIBE to my channels.
2️⃣ LIKE / COMMENT / SHARE my videos.
3️⃣ SEND me a Super Thanks
4️⃣ Become a channel member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCerYpTmasyCOuy9WH2qEeCg/join
5️⃣ BUY my book: https://orionkelly.com.au/shop
📬 Business Postal Address (Sponsorship proposals, promotional considerations etc)
Orion Kelly Media,
PO Box 457,
Inverloch, VIC, Australia 3996
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
🔵 CHANNEL LINKS 🔵
More Videos: https://youtube.com/@orionkelly
My PODCAST Channel: https://youtube.com/@orionkellypodcasts
🔵 CONNECT 🔵
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OrionKellyInc
Twitter: https://twitter.com/orionkelly
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/orionkelly_australia
TikTok: @orionkelly_australia
Website: https://orionkelly.com.au
🎧 My Friend Autism' PODCAST 🎧
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/my-friend-autism/id1478602313
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6d6UVtNsw7OxEUaCnr7oN0
Stitcher: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/orion-kelly/my-friend-autism
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ABOUT ORION:
Orion Kelly is an #ActuallyAutistic vlogger (YouTuber), podcaster, radio host, actor, keynote speaker and Autistic advocate based in Australia. Orion is all about helping you increase your understanding, acceptance and appreciation of Autistic people.
#AutisticVoices #ActuallyAutistic #Autistic #Autism #OrionKelly #ThatAutisticGuy #ASD
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⛔️*Disclaimer: The videos contained on this channel are for general education and entertainment purposes only and do not constitute professional advice. For professional advice and training seek assistance from a qualified provider. All views are my own and do not represent those of my employers or sponsors. Some images used are stock images.*⛔️
Related: autism, autism diagnosis, Orion Kelly, orionkelly, thatautisticguy, tiktok videos, autistic, autism in adults, autism in women, autism in men, autism spectrum condition, asd, autism spectrum disorder, aspergers, aspergers syndrome, autism in boys, autism in girls, dsm, dsm5, autistic adults, autistic kids, autism mom, autism parent, autism family, autism speaks, autism awareness, autism acceptance, autism at work, am I autistic, adult autism test, autism disclosure, autism therapy, autism prevention, autism meltdown, autistic burnout, autistic behavior, autism symptoms, autism traits, autistic signs, what autism feels like, love on the spectrum, stimming, echolalia, anxiety
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263.5K
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Duration
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Published
Dec 11, 2023
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