Ultimate Goal Setting Toolkit: Achieve Your Dreams with Mel Robbins 🚀
Learn proven strategies to set meaningful goals tailored to you and turn them into reality. Plus, get your copy of The Let Them Theory, the bestselling book of 2025, and unlock your true potential!

Mel Robbins
195.9K views • Jan 5, 2023

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This episode will help you set the right goals for you.
Goals matter. They make your life easier and they create a sense of purpose and meaning.
But most people don’t set goals the right way, which is why they fail before they even start.
That’s not going to be you.
This episode is a comprehensive toolkit that will help you set the goals that inspire you and make you feel excited about the year ahead.
And, it’s part of our month-long series covering the foundational research and topics related to creating a better life.
Today, you’re not only going to learn the correct way to set goals according to research, you’re also going to identify 1-3 goals for yourself, and I’ll be doing the same thing right along with you.
Have no idea what your goals are or where to even start?
Don’t worry; you will by the end of the episode.
You’ll apply the latest research every single step of the way.
And that’s not all.
You can access a free companion workbook at melrobbins.com/goals that will walk you through everything we’re talking about so you can go even deeper into this conversation.
Expect your goals to change as you listen to this episode, so don’t worry about doing any of this “right.”
By the end of this episode you will have even taken the first steps toward your goal.
How cool is that? I can’t wait. Let’s get started.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
00:00 Intro
02:15 How do I set goals the right way?
04:18 Why setting goals is so important: the truth from research
10:38 The exciting new research about goals from Dr. Birkman that you need to know
13:10 My three goals for 2023
15:28 I’m answering your top question about goals.
17:40 Four science-backed hacks to use when you’re not sure what your goals are
20:17 Three qualities of the best goals
23:04 Two components of a goal that you’ve got to have in order to achieve it
27:58 What neuroscience says about why your brain needs these two components
31:25 The five mistakes we all make when we set and try to achieve goals
41:13 A powerful question about goals from Columbia University researchers that you should ask yourself
42:55 Why setting a “high-low range goal” will make you more successful
47:33 The most important thing you should do once you set a goal
50:26 Here’s the crazy irony about achieving your goals
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Follow Mel:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/
TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins
Website: http://melrobbins.com
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Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter
A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want.
—
Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins?sub_confirmation=1
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Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday!
https://melrob.co/spotify
https://melrob.co/applepodcasts
https://melrob.co/amazonmusic
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Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here:
The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe
The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp
The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ
The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah
—
This episode will help you set the right goals for you.
Goals matter. They make your life easier and they create a sense of purpose and meaning.
But most people don’t set goals the right way, which is why they fail before they even start.
That’s not going to be you.
This episode is a comprehensive toolkit that will help you set the goals that inspire you and make you feel excited about the year ahead.
And, it’s part of our month-long series covering the foundational research and topics related to creating a better life.
Today, you’re not only going to learn the correct way to set goals according to research, you’re also going to identify 1-3 goals for yourself, and I’ll be doing the same thing right along with you.
Have no idea what your goals are or where to even start?
Don’t worry; you will by the end of the episode.
You’ll apply the latest research every single step of the way.
And that’s not all.
You can access a free companion workbook at melrobbins.com/goals that will walk you through everything we’re talking about so you can go even deeper into this conversation.
Expect your goals to change as you listen to this episode, so don’t worry about doing any of this “right.”
By the end of this episode you will have even taken the first steps toward your goal.
How cool is that? I can’t wait. Let’s get started.
Xo Mel
In this episode, you’ll learn:
00:00 Intro
02:15 How do I set goals the right way?
04:18 Why setting goals is so important: the truth from research
10:38 The exciting new research about goals from Dr. Birkman that you need to know
13:10 My three goals for 2023
15:28 I’m answering your top question about goals.
17:40 Four science-backed hacks to use when you’re not sure what your goals are
20:17 Three qualities of the best goals
23:04 Two components of a goal that you’ve got to have in order to achieve it
27:58 What neuroscience says about why your brain needs these two components
31:25 The five mistakes we all make when we set and try to achieve goals
41:13 A powerful question about goals from Columbia University researchers that you should ask yourself
42:55 Why setting a “high-low range goal” will make you more successful
47:33 The most important thing you should do once you set a goal
50:26 Here’s the crazy irony about achieving your goals
—
Follow Mel:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melrobbins/
TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@melrobbins
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/melrobbins
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melrobbins
Website: http://melrobbins.com
—
Sign up for Mel’s newsletter: https://melrob.co/sign-up-newsletter
A note from Mel to you, twice a week, sharing simple, practical ways to build the life you want.
—
Subscribe to Mel’s channel here: https://www.youtube.com/melrobbins?sub_confirmation=1
—
Listen to The Mel Robbins Podcast 🎧 New episodes drop every Monday & Thursday!
https://melrob.co/spotify
https://melrob.co/applepodcasts
https://melrob.co/amazonmusic
—
Looking for Mel’s books on Amazon? Find them here:
The Let Them Theory: https://amzn.to/3IQ21Oe
The Let Them Theory Audiobook: https://amzn.to/413SObp
The High 5 Habit: https://amzn.to/3fMvfPQ
The 5 Second Rule: https://amzn.to/4l54fah
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