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Cara Nicole
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Is money a dealbreaker? What's the role of money modern dating? And does being a “provider” still matter?
In this video, let's break down the real role money plays in modern relationships—from attraction and compatibility to power and autonomy. Whether you’re single, dating, or deep in a relationship, this is the money talk we all need to be having.
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Nerdwallet on money and relationships: https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/finance/54-of-engaged-americans-disagree-with-partner-on-financial-goals
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00:00 money problems everywhere
02:13 paired!
03:31 money is a SIGNAL
07:35 money is a TOOL
10:12 a "providera" in dating
13:21 money is POWER
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✏️ Check out my new newsletter, The Pop Finance Report: https://thepopfinancereport.substack.com/ !! Making money make sense—through media and pop culture.
🎥 More about this video:
Is money a dealbreaker? What's the role of money modern dating? And does being a “provider” still matter?
In this video, let's break down the real role money plays in modern relationships—from attraction and compatibility to power and autonomy. Whether you’re single, dating, or deep in a relationship, this is the money talk we all need to be having.
Want more videos on money, media, society, and intentional living? Be sure to subscribe for more video essays!
🔍 Resources mentioned:
Nerdwallet on money and relationships: https://www.nerdwallet.com/article/finance/54-of-engaged-americans-disagree-with-partner-on-financial-goals
💌 Want to support the channel? Here are a few ways!:
- One-time donation: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/cara.nicole
- Join my Patreon: patreon.com/caranicole
- My Etsy (budget spreadsheets!): https://www.etsy.com/shop/FinancialFreedomGirl?ref=profile_header
- Subscribe to my newsletter: https://thepopfinancereport.substack.com/
🎥 Check out some of my other videos! 🎥
- Let's talk Trust Fund Babies: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKxoxEhX3yA&t=2s
- Let's talk being Credit Card Poor: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pN3UD833VAE&t=3s
- The Dangers of 'Stay at Home Girlfriend' and 'TradWife' Culture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tj52t_ahC-I&t=542s
Time Stamps:
00:00 money problems everywhere
02:13 paired!
03:31 money is a SIGNAL
07:35 money is a TOOL
10:12 a "providera" in dating
13:21 money is POWER
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