7 Signs of a Toxic vs Healthy Relationship
Learn to spot toxic behaviors with these 7 signs and understand what a healthy relationship looks like. 💡

Relationships That Work with Michelle Farris
6.6K views • Jan 31, 2023

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7 Signs of a Toxic Relationship (vs What's Healthy)
Learn how to identify a toxic relationship by understanding these 7 signs of a toxic relationship. Plus learn the healthy behavior for each toxic behavior.
Healing a toxic relationship isn't always possible but if they are accountable and willing to seek help, that's a good sign. Otherwise, when they continue to blame and gaslight you, it's time to take care of yourself first.
The information provided by Michelle Farris are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Michelle Farris is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.
Time stamps:
00:00 Introduction
00:25 Your feelings don't matter to the toxic person
01:00 The relationship revolves around one person's needs
01:59 You experience frequent gaslighting in relationship
03:29 Your partner tried to limit your time with family and friends
04:31 There is a pattern of blame and shame that gets worse over time
05:36 Your partner doesn't feel empathy when you're hurting
07:51 Convincing them to get help is NOT a good sign
08:12 You need to change for your partner to be happy
09:14 Need help assessing relationships, get my Relationship Checklists
09:25 List of healthy behaviors
Here are a few ways to get extra support:
✅ FREE Relationship Checklist to assess the health of your relationships!
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/relationship-checklist/
✅ FREE journal prompts for codependency, self-care and boundaries https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/codependent-worksheets/
✅ FREE 30 Minute Training on Better Boundaries
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/boundariesmf/
📒 The Codependency E-Workbook:
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/codependency-workbook/
📒 The Self-trust Solution: E-Journal
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/self-trust-solution-discount
Connect with me on social media!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/counselingrecovery/
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/mshellmft/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/counseling_recovery/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellefarrismft/
Michelle is a psychotherapist, codependency expert, and anger management, specialist. She’s been featured in The Daily Positive, BossMom, Psych Central, The Good Men Project, and Your Tango just to name a few. Her relationship recovery helps people go from relationships that don’t serve them, to learning how to trust themselves and create mutually satisfying connections that work. Michelle loves creating online products and courses on relationship skills, codependency recovery, anger management, conflict resolution, self-esteem, and self-trust.
Learn how to identify a toxic relationship by understanding these 7 signs of a toxic relationship. Plus learn the healthy behavior for each toxic behavior.
Healing a toxic relationship isn't always possible but if they are accountable and willing to seek help, that's a good sign. Otherwise, when they continue to blame and gaslight you, it's time to take care of yourself first.
The information provided by Michelle Farris are solely intended for informational and entertainment purposes and are not a substitute for advice, diagnosis, or treatment regarding medical or mental health conditions. Although Michelle Farris is a licensed marriage and family therapist, the views expressed on this site or any related content should not be taken for medical or psychiatric advice. Always consult your physician before making any decisions related to your physical or mental health.
Time stamps:
00:00 Introduction
00:25 Your feelings don't matter to the toxic person
01:00 The relationship revolves around one person's needs
01:59 You experience frequent gaslighting in relationship
03:29 Your partner tried to limit your time with family and friends
04:31 There is a pattern of blame and shame that gets worse over time
05:36 Your partner doesn't feel empathy when you're hurting
07:51 Convincing them to get help is NOT a good sign
08:12 You need to change for your partner to be happy
09:14 Need help assessing relationships, get my Relationship Checklists
09:25 List of healthy behaviors
Here are a few ways to get extra support:
✅ FREE Relationship Checklist to assess the health of your relationships!
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/relationship-checklist/
✅ FREE journal prompts for codependency, self-care and boundaries https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/codependent-worksheets/
✅ FREE 30 Minute Training on Better Boundaries
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/boundariesmf/
📒 The Codependency E-Workbook:
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/codependency-workbook/
📒 The Self-trust Solution: E-Journal
https://counselingrecovery.lpages.co/self-trust-solution-discount
Connect with me on social media!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/counselingrecovery/
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/mshellmft/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/counseling_recovery/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michellefarrismft/
Michelle is a psychotherapist, codependency expert, and anger management, specialist. She’s been featured in The Daily Positive, BossMom, Psych Central, The Good Men Project, and Your Tango just to name a few. Her relationship recovery helps people go from relationships that don’t serve them, to learning how to trust themselves and create mutually satisfying connections that work. Michelle loves creating online products and courses on relationship skills, codependency recovery, anger management, conflict resolution, self-esteem, and self-trust.
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