5 Effective Ways to Flirt When You're Worried About Rejection
Practical tips to help you flirt confidently even if you're afraid they might not reciprocate, with personalized advice available through Ask Matthew AI.

Matthew Hussey
196.1K views • Apr 20, 2025

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How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone you’re into, it can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to show interest, but not come off as too eager.
In this week’s video, I share five subtle-yet-powerful flirting techniques that create attraction . . . without the fear of looking desperate or risking rejection. (Plus, I reveal a playful way my wife flirted with me early on that left a lasting impression—and it’s something you can easily try yourself.)
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:41 – When We Play It Safe
1:41 – 4:15 – #1 Do 5% More Than You Would Normally Do
4:15 – 8:05 – #2 Switch to the Language of Tension
8:05 – 10:34 – Flirting in Your Specific Scenario
10:34 – 14:09 – #3 Create a Shared World
14:09 – 16:30 – #4 Practice Changing Gears
16:30 – 19:28 – Flirting + Elijah Wood’s Favorite Sandwich
19:28 – 20:55 – #5 Notice Something About a Person, but in a Flirtatious Way
20:55 – 22:01 – What These 5 Things Have in Common
Ask Matthew AI Your Biggest Dating Question Right Now at . . .
→ http://www.AskMH.com
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Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now.
I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
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How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone you’re into, it can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to show interest, but not come off as too eager.
In this week’s video, I share five subtle-yet-powerful flirting techniques that create attraction . . . without the fear of looking desperate or risking rejection. (Plus, I reveal a playful way my wife flirted with me early on that left a lasting impression—and it’s something you can easily try yourself.)
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/
Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey
▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:41 – When We Play It Safe
1:41 – 4:15 – #1 Do 5% More Than You Would Normally Do
4:15 – 8:05 – #2 Switch to the Language of Tension
8:05 – 10:34 – Flirting in Your Specific Scenario
10:34 – 14:09 – #3 Create a Shared World
14:09 – 16:30 – #4 Practice Changing Gears
16:30 – 19:28 – Flirting + Elijah Wood’s Favorite Sandwich
19:28 – 20:55 – #5 Notice Something About a Person, but in a Flirtatious Way
20:55 – 22:01 – What These 5 Things Have in Common
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