38 Years in the Making: Unlock Your Confidence in Just 10 Minutes
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Matthew Hussey
171.4K views • Jun 29, 2025

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In my 30s, I realized some truths about relationships that took me years to really learn. I used to believe in a lot of romantic myths. But in this week’s new video, I share the hard-earned truth that certainty in love isn’t something you find on day one—it’s something you have to decide to build and invest in.
You’ll also learn the difference between “settling for” and “settling on” someone, and why the latter is the key to creating a love that lasts.
If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by the fear of choosing the wrong person, or overwhelmed by your search for “the one,” this is the mindset shift you need.
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:00 – Great Relationships Aren’t Found, They’re Built
1:00 – 2:53 – The Lack of Certainty We Feel
2:53 – 4:19 – The Experience of My 20s
4:19 – 5:42 – What to Actually Look for in a Partner
5:42 – 7:57 – Where Real Certainty Can Be Found
7:57 – 9:41 – Don’t Miss My Free Confidence Challenge
Join My FREE 30 Day Confidence Challenge.
It All Starts on July 15th with a LIVE Coaching Session
Sign Up Now at. . .
→ http://www.MHChallenge.com
▼
Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now.
I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
▼
In my 30s, I realized some truths about relationships that took me years to really learn. I used to believe in a lot of romantic myths. But in this week’s new video, I share the hard-earned truth that certainty in love isn’t something you find on day one—it’s something you have to decide to build and invest in.
You’ll also learn the difference between “settling for” and “settling on” someone, and why the latter is the key to creating a love that lasts.
If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by the fear of choosing the wrong person, or overwhelmed by your search for “the one,” this is the mindset shift you need.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/
Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey
▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 1:00 – Great Relationships Aren’t Found, They’re Built
1:00 – 2:53 – The Lack of Certainty We Feel
2:53 – 4:19 – The Experience of My 20s
4:19 – 5:42 – What to Actually Look for in a Partner
5:42 – 7:57 – Where Real Certainty Can Be Found
7:57 – 9:41 – Don’t Miss My Free Confidence Challenge
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