The Brutal Truth About Relationships You Need to Hear
Discover essential insights about relationships that can transform your life. Join the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat to learn more about building healthier connections and personal growth.

Matthew Hussey
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Jun 22, 2025 • 20:40

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►► Transform Your Life in 2 Powerful Days
Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com
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I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
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I have something really cool to share today,
This is a conversation I had with Jay Shetty for his On Purpose podcast, where we talked about the modern dating dilemma of endless options and the fear of settling. We discussed the danger of always looking for “someone better” as a dating strategy, why we miss out on meaningful connections, and how to find a real relationship rather than optimizing for the perfect partner.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re always torn between chasing someone exciting or someone who brings you peace, this episode will help you create a love life that actually works for you.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/
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▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 3:40 – Finding Someone You Want to Build With
3:40 – 6:25 – The Danger of “Optimizing” in Dating
6:25 – 8:02 – When We’re Constantly Second-Guessing Ourselves
8:02 – 8:56 – Your Questions Answered 24/7
8:56 – 13:18 – How to Raise Your Standards
13:18 – 19:23 – Tactics vs. Standards
19:23 – 20:40 – Join Me This Fall
Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at. . .
→ http://www.MHRetreat.com
▼
Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now.
I post new love life advice for you every weekend.
▼
I have something really cool to share today,
This is a conversation I had with Jay Shetty for his On Purpose podcast, where we talked about the modern dating dilemma of endless options and the fear of settling. We discussed the danger of always looking for “someone better” as a dating strategy, why we miss out on meaningful connections, and how to find a real relationship rather than optimizing for the perfect partner.
If you’ve ever felt like you’re always torn between chasing someone exciting or someone who brings you peace, this episode will help you create a love life that actually works for you.
►► Order My New Book, "Love Life" at → http://www.LoveLifeBook.com
►► FREE Video Training: “Dating With Results” → http://www.DatingWithResults.com
►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at → http://www.MHWeekendRetreat.com
▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼
Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/
Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey
Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey
TikTok → https://www.tiktok.com/@thematthewhussey
▼ Chapters ▼
0:00 – 3:40 – Finding Someone You Want to Build With
3:40 – 6:25 – The Danger of “Optimizing” in Dating
6:25 – 8:02 – When We’re Constantly Second-Guessing Ourselves
8:02 – 8:56 – Your Questions Answered 24/7
8:56 – 13:18 – How to Raise Your Standards
13:18 – 19:23 – Tactics vs. Standards
19:23 – 20:40 – Join Me This Fall
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